Happy Ending....=)

Oprah says....

"If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t “be friends”. A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend. Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don’t stay because you think “it will get better.” You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within. Don’t ever make him feel he is more important than you are… even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else’s man. If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you allow him to treat you. All men are not dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending…compromise is two way street. You need time to heal between relationships… there is nothing cute about baggage. Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to complete you, a relationship consists of two whole individuals, look for someone complimentary ..not supplementary. Dating is fun… even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes, when a man always know where you are, and you’re always readily available to him - he takes it for granted. Never move into his mother’s house. Never co-sign for a man. Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar, but get to know others."

Cheating...

No way in hell would I agree that cheating is okay.
What’s the point of being in a relationship if you’re not going to be faithful to your significant other?
When you cheat on someone, does it make you feel good?
Do you have no guilt thrust upon you?
It makes me wonder what goes through that person’s head before they cheat on someone.
Why should your partner suffer the consequences?
They deserve the best...
Not some unfaithful, inconsiderate twit...
In fact, everyone deserves the best...

(i think this post is for me ooww...huhu...)

http://whatevermjsays.tumblr.com/post/875120180/cheating

Just a friendly advise...

Kenapa mesti merungut dan cuma tau menuding jari?

Penakah dmana2 klinik kmu nmpk dentist pakai uniform pegi kerja? Or bdk degree selain dds yg gna uniform? Alaa,biasala dorg kn bdk degree...lgpun kita ni cuma pangkat diploma jak..apala nak samakan taraf kita dgn dorg...dahla namanya pun kolej swasta...cukupla dorg x pki seksi2 gi klas...mana2 kolej pun ada peraturan pakaian seragam baa...ada tertulis dlm student guide book pun...masalahnya ada baca ka x? Aku pun pena langgar peraturan juga...setiapkali pakai mmg rasa guilty sgt2...Cuma bagi MJ,da namanya student, buatlah mcm student...so,i’m being a student & occupy myself as best as i can...^__^...

Okey..okey...Prof. ‘Ikan’ tu mmg x patut bt mcm tu...MJ stuju bab yg dia amik pic org pakai jeans n tshirt tu...mmg x patut actually...apalagi tanpa consent...hurmmm...bole ker bagi dia satu sepakan maut utk dia?? Hahahhakss....dgr nama dia pun da muak apalg nk tgok muka dia yg hanya tau mencari kesalahan org & GILA KUASA!!! Sedarlah ko tu dah tua, bykkan beramal....ko tu askar pencen jer...

Bole x MJ bagi cadangan??

Apala salahnya kita pakai jak uniform biru ni dgn seluar slack hitam...xyah susa2 pikir...MJ bukan anak org kaya tp dgn elaun jahitan tu pun aku mampu beli 1 seluar slack itam...seluar pun satu jak...cian kn? Tp okla drpd supplier yg btkn seluar konfom mcm mama2 pya seluar...hahha...nda sgup MJ mo pkai oo... :P duit elaun yg kita trma tiap2 bulan tu cukup actly...[tu bgi yg wise budgeting laaa...]

Pasal bas....{pagi ni MJ rasa lucu dgn 1 kejadian..hahaha...}

Hurmm...dah sem 4 mcm nie baru nk timbul bende ni sdgkn dr MJ jejak kaki kt Mahsa ni mmg dah berlaku pun...mengapa tiada tindakan yg diambil?? MJ pun merungut jugak tapi lama2 mcm benda ni dah lali...mmg MJ pun sengsara hidup d Mahsa nie...dorg patut pikirkan kepentingan dan kebajikan student...dah la kteorg nie bgun awl pagi..kene baris awl pagi..8am-5pm kelas...balik kene baris lg...xpela la dpt duduk ni yg xpat duduk kene berdiri lgi...tauka penat tu mcm mana???!!!

Apa pun, i’m glad Pn.Connie Wong ada utk membantu..MJ rasa baik dia ganti Pn. Mariani tue...cakap x serupa bikin...puiiii!!!

[kepada DT/09-1 yg baca nie,MJ minta maaf lau post ni menyakitkan korg...Truth hurts...MJ juz meluahkan apa yg tersirat dlm hati...lg pun ni blog MJ, lantak MJ la maw tulis apa kn?? Hahahha...oppss....]

as i said...this is just a friendly advise...

kurang kasih sayang??

FUCK YOU LAAA!!!!!

huh?? kau cakap aku kurang kasih sayang??

aku ka kau??

kau ingat aku ni anak yatim piatu da ka, aku da xda parents ka ko ckp aku kurang kasih sayang sial??

yaaa…aku terasa sebab mmg ko tujukan khas utk aku…tul kn?

apa yg ko tau pasal kasih sayang??

lau ko cukup sgt kasih sayang kau tak membesar jadi kurang ajar biadap mcm nie!!

ko ingat ko ada bf ko cukup kasih sayang laa??

if u got brain, think!!! ohh i forgot, u got brain but empty or maybe too small for you!!! hahahha….!!!

B.I.T.C.H

[post ini sudah lama~~~~ bru dpt post kn cni~~~~ tme tu marah sgt~~ saper suru ckp MJ mcm tue~~~]

Relationshitsss...

it wasnt supposed to end this way...i sat on the edge of my bed,with a heart that exposed and empty and then the sobs began... My heart was alone, my pain and problems are my own and then panic set in, feeling of regret, gasp for breath in a heavy chest...i never been like this since i broke up with my last bf..

this time it’s really a weird feeling with a person name Yen... those first few months of being in love they were only the beginning... phone calls, texting, chatting...have u ever like when u online in Facebook, seeing your homepage and the first thing u do is looking at your left column to find out if he’s online or not? U have this excited-shy-nervous thing inside u...and when u chat you’re like talkative “hahaha” or “^__^” and u have so many things u want to share with him...then in texting, u feel like you’re the most happiest girl alive when he said “i love u baby...goodnight...i call u tomorrow”...hurmm.....sure you’re gonna have a really nice dream after tht...

but nothing last forever they say...we had one too many arguments about random stuffs...things that wasn’t suppose to be a prob for other couple...things regarding don’t comment with boys on the FB, things like who’s that girl that keep on commenting on you...things like why the hell u upload ur sexy picture in FB...it is mostly random stupid things that not supposed to be a problem!!!

am i breaking up? am i leaving this relationship? what had happened?

No and yes! We never been a couple..(well, we supposed to be)...so no breaking up things but i’m leaving this relationshitss!! What will happen?? Let it happen and see...

I’m still here...still doing my routine things...just smile and act fine like everything is okay...

And inside, no one knows....

Movie with Pami + Meicer...^__^

24/07/2010.....jumpa Pami a.k.a Muhammad Fahmi Faiz...MJ dgn oppa (Meitcher) jumpa Pami kat Midvalley...hehehe~~ yeayyy~~~ pami blnje kteorg tgok muvee~~ yeyeye!!!! kteorg tgok
The Sorcerer's Apprentice.....^__^...
BEST!!!!

jumpa lgi k pami??!!! ^___^ blnje kteorg lg...ngahahahahha~~~~ :P

Despicable Me in 3D....yeahhh!!!

mempersembahkan.....

akhirnya dapat juga aku tgok movie 3D sama c oppa (meicer)...Despicable Me lagi tue~~ hehehe~~ :P


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antara adegan2 menarik dalam Despicable Me...

"Does this count as annoying?"

"It's so fluffy!!"

hehehhehe~~~ ^____^ best kn???
tengoklah bagi mereka yg lum tgok lgi....
BEST!!

Budak-Budak Zaman Sekarang...

mari dengar cite budak2 zaman sekarang
ade pakai jubah, ade yg separuh telanjang
ade macam2, kulit putih tukar hitam
ikut suka hati, ape peduli halal haram
mase kecik2 cite2 jadi doktor
bile besar jadi lupe jadi kaye jadi gangster


ape kejadahnye ayah kelu tak berkata
mak garu kepala mase depan huru-hara
orang bercinta dier pon gatal nak ikut
bile maruah dah tergadai baru dada rase semput

ini kisah anak dara belum yg tua muda
macam2 ada sampai tak tau macam mane nak mule
sekolah belum habis dah lagak macam dewasa
islam hanye pada name semua dier nak cube
boleh main cube2, boleh main rabe2?
main same2 bile kene same rase

tepuk dada tanye selera?
tanya iman tanya diri
tanya kaki sape bagi
sampai kite boleh berdiri?

aku cume criter ape yg aku nampak
terpulanglah kat korang nak trimer ke tak

budak zaman sekarang perangai pelik
orang kate buruk dier pandang semua cantek
tak pelik?
mane pegi rase segan
kalau kate orang kurang2 ingat tuhan
umat manusia bergantung pade ilmu
setakat tunjuk otai takde orang respek kat lu
memang begitu
dunia untuk orang bijak
pandai2 hidup kalau taknak kene pijak

cube2 usha tengok2 sekeliling
bukan tengok dinding tapi minah senget mate juling
dier bukan bute cume buat2 tak nampak
dier rase seronok jadi budak rosak akhlak

harge diri murah jual badan kat lelaki
macam balak die konon ambik dier buat bini
sedarla diri sedarla dari mimpi2
ape hari2 kau memang gelap takde pagi
korang pakai seksi sebab laki suke tengok
kalau lawa takpe cume lawa sikit dari momok (uwekkk…)

pusingkan pandangan tengok pulak bende baru
budak jadi kaye walau belum tumbuh bulu
ape bende tu jantan pon belum kering lagi
dah pandai pulak cinte main sane - main sini
tukar pompuan hari2 bukan ke kau tu muslim?
tapi tak jage kau tukar pompuan macam musim
macam main game boleh buat sesuke hati
cube pikir balik ke mane kite lepas mati?
tak payah kerek2 kite semua bukan hebat
ingat atas sane ade kuasa lagi kuat

budak zaman sekarang perangai pelik
orang kate buruk dier pandang semua cantek
tak pelik?
mane pegi rase segan
kalau kate orang kurang2 ingat tuhan
umat manusia bergantung pade ilmu
setakat tunjuk otai takde orang respek kat lu
memang begitu
dunia untuk orang bijak
pandai2 hidup kalau taknak kene pijak

jom tengok2 budak2 dekat sini
perangai pelik diorang tambah sikit dengan perangai gedik
dengan jersi besar rantai pula nak cecah lantai
topi kasi senget pasti kan tunjuk otai
pakai seluar besar badan2 macam lidi
tapi akan sikit bagi tayang bulu kaki
tayang itu ini tunjuk semua perangai buruk
memang teruk bile orang mule lagak beruk
buat ape sibuk2 dengan trend mase kini
sanggup pakai mahal walau gadai itu ini
berhabis duit cume sebab nak perhatian
semua atas sebab diri nak diperhatikan
inilah hakikat kite pentingkan luaran
anugerah tuhan lebih sekadar ucapan


budak zaman sekarang perangai pelik
orang kate buruk dier pandang semua cantek
tak pelik?
mane pegi rase segan
kalau kate orang kurang2 ingat tuhan
umat manusia bergantung pade ilmu
setakat tunjuk otai takde orang respek kat lu
memang begitu
dunia untuk orang bijak
pandai2 hidup kalau taknak kene pijak

How To Get Motivated...

When it comes to motivating yourself to be a better person,
to do better at work or to create a happier family life you
need to understand the importance of taking control of your
self-talk. You really need to know how to motivate yourself
through thick and thin.

Do you ever pay attention to the thoughts inside your mind?
And more importantly do you ever notice the way in which
you talk to yourself?

Here are three tips you can use right away to motivate
yourself:

find out how to be motivated in seconds:

1. Talk To Yourself The Way You Talk To Someone You Love

Be honest!

Is it true you sometimes insult yourself, curse yourself
and say horrible things about your abilities? If you spoke
like this regularly to the people you care about they would
leave and never talk to you again.

There is no excuse for treating yourself so badly. Talk to
yourself the way you would talk to someone you deeply love.
Be respectful, patient and understanding. Be slow to anger,
quick to praise and grateful for the opportunity to listen.

Be on your best behavior when you talk to yourself and you
will find that you treat other people better as well. This
in turn will cause people to respond more positively to
whatever you say. These very people will be more inclined
to help you get what you want.

2. Pump Up The Volume

Very often we go through our day with an internal dialogue
buzzing away in the background. We mutter to ourselves
about what we need to do without feeling particularly
inspired to do anything other than what we have to do. This
is not an effective strategy for self-motivation!

What you need to do instead is to turn up the volume,
inject some passion into your words and talk to yourself
with enthusiasm. You would not have much luck motivating
someone else to take action without putting some energy
into your words. You need to do the same to motivate
yourself. You must know how to be motivated at a moments
notice!

The next time you want to motivate yourself to do something
- talk to yourself the same way you would if someone was
standing before you waiting to be inspired. Speak loudly
with passion and excitement either aloud or to yourself
inside your head. The more energy you put into it the
easier it will be to light the fire inside you that sparks
you into action.

3. Know How To Feel Good When You Are Having A Tough Day

No matter how focused, positive and hard working you are
there will still be days when nothing seems to go your way.
It is on days like this that you must take charge of your
brain and take control of your self talk.

You need a back catalogue of memories you can replay to
make yourself feel good. Music does it for me. I have so
many songs I love to hear that I just pick one out and
listen to it in my mind. In a moment I can listen to sounds
that make me feel fantastic simply by choosing to.

For best results imagine you have a volume control with
bass and treble. Make the music sound rich, loud and
resonant. This is the secret to knowing how to be motivated
in a way that works for you.

A friend of mine has such a great memory that he will
listen to an entire CD in his mind. How about that for a
quick and easy way to feel good whenever you are having a
tough day?

One final way to use this tip...

Replay happy memories of people telling you how much they
value and appreciate you. Hear them saying what a
difference you are making and soak up those wonderful
feelings of appreciation.

Your motivation will soar and getting more done each day
will just get easier and easier with eager people lining up
to help you.

It really is your choice as to how you run your brain.
Choose to feel great and your communication with yourself
and the outside world will become remarkable.

And do bear in mind the alternative is bleak ...

2005 is almost over. If you let things slide like you did
last year we will be having the same conversation in 12
months time.

How much will that hurt?

All you need to do is unlock your personal motivation style
- the step by step formula that works best for you and your
lifestyle.

Do that and 2006 will be the year you took control of your
life and felt secure and at peace like never before.

Now imagine how good you will feel about yourself. Follow
my step by step motivation system and you will enjoy a
renewed vitality for life...

I explain the five steps to finding the best way to ensure
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All the best,

Peter Murphy

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